The pandemic did not only damage our health or devastate our economy. It wreaked havoc on many of our relationships. We were forced by this pandemic to socialize less but interact more and sometimes with very adverse effects. But it didn't have to be that way.

If you knew for instance that your partner who is not physically with you, didn’t need to call every day but only twice a week, that would actually help your relationship. Some couples complained that they never expected to feel this lonely while everyone was at home during the shutdown. Discovering what each person needs to maintain their connection will absolutely be helpful. Now let’s take a look at what these tests mean.

The best way to understand the XY ConneXion approach is to observe your children or try to remember how you connected as a child.